Law Of Attraction - Attraction Is A Natural Phenomenon

kn5B4ow why most people can't tell you what they want? It's simple, really. They spend so much time thinking about how bad their life is, and thinking about what they don't want, that their mind becomes fixated on the negatives. They become experts at thinking about bad stuff.

Without ever realizing it, they've become specialists in all the crappy and unpleasant things that can go wrong for them.

They don't even realize they've never practiced thinking about the good stuff, except in a wistful, distant "I wish I could have that," kind of way.

"I wish I could have" translates to "I can't have," and their inner mind obediently attracts to them what they fill their thoughts with. Lack. Wishfulness. Sadness. Loneliness.

They're getting exactly what they're creating, but they never realize it. Ask any unhappy, unfulfilled person what's causing all their misery, and you'll get every answer but the correct one.

You'll hear tales of bad luck, unfairness at work and at home, a boss with a grudge, a spouse that "doesn't understand me," and every other reason under the sun. What you won't ever hear is: "I did all this to myself."

Our thoughts attract to us the events and conditions that match what we're thinking about. This happens whether or not we know it's going on. If you walk into a room, accidentally bump the thermostat, and change its setting, the room's temperature will change. The fact that you don't know yo5AEu did it is irrelevant. If you change the setting, the temperature changes.

So taking control of our life's "thermostat" seems like a useful thing to learn.

Now, learning all this is pretty much like learning any other new skill. You'll go through a stage when it's all exciting. Then it'll turn into a grind. Next will be the "I'll never be able to do this" phase. Then the "well, maybe I can do it, but it sure is taking longer than I expected" phase. And eventually you'll come to the "Okay, it's starting to make sense and it's working part of the time now" phase. And although it takes a while, you eventually get to the expert stage -- if you hang in there and keep going. So learning this is just like mastering any other skill.

The ability to tune your thoughts to a new set of conditions is the same skill that the leaders and innovators of the world use to make their mark. And they had to learn it, just like you're doing now.

If you're learning tennis or skating, you go through a definite process of attempting new levels, one step at a time, practicing, and checking your progress. Eventually, you become so good at your new hobby that people say, "Wow, she's just a natural," forgetting (or ignoring) all the work you put into the process.

Well, that's the way it'll be, too, when you learn to run your own life.

Shall we get started?

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Power Of Intention